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Trying to get back

Just a quick note: My posts lately have been and maybe still are going to be all over the map and inconsistent. I have felt somewhat mentally unfocused and disorganized than usual. Right now I need some time of simplicity to become refocused and regenerated, then I can put more of myself into my writing and posts.

I will be playing around with the appearance of this blog just to try some new things out. I have added a contact form on the contact page, so if you have any questions or comments, fill that out and it will be sent to my email.

Taking Suggestions & Ideas

This is just a quick note to let readers know that I am up for taking suggestions and requests for post ideas. It can be anything, a crazy news story, a topic you want me to cover, something you want to do my thoughts on…anything! Just send me an email at AshleyBPariseau@gmail.com and I’ll take it into consideration, thanks!

I would like to thank the blogging academy.



I was recently notified via comment that blogger Old Dog New Tits has nominated me for the Versatile Blogger Award. I am psyched especially since this is my very first award for this blog ever.

I don’t think anyone can argue that my blog isn’t versatile. I wrote about topic of all kinds, from serious, to light, to controversial, to writing, to personal, inspirational, and everything in between. I have wondered on and off about whether or not I should narrow down the topics a little bit and make things a little bit more specific and focused, but I realized there’s no way I can do that since there is just too much I like to write about. This blog is a means for me of self expression for me, and there are many different facades to who I am, so one day I might post about something like domestic violence and the next day I might write about going shopping. That’s just me.

Now with this award, there comes a few requirements.

*Nominate 15 fellow bloggers
Each of these blogs are just awesome and you should check them out.

MyInnerChick
WildAtHeart
AbsolutelyNarcissism
AccordingToAshley
EatTheDamnCake
HappyBrittany
Random Ruminations
TheBloggess
TiffsBloggy
ThePervocracy
ForLoveofRetail
Brute Reason
RachelaHanson
ThisLittleLark
TheGypsies

* Inform the bloggers of their nominations.
I will be doing so right after this post is published.

* Share 7 random things about yourself.
- I have taken the MBTI test and my results are either INTJ or INTP
- I have pretty bad eye sight. I started wearing glasses at age 7. My power is currently -8.50 in both eyes.
- When I was little I used to idolize Punky Brewster.
- I grew up on a small farm in the middle of corn fields. We had cows.
- I take naps almost daily.
- I can crack my knuckles, toes, back, and knee joints.
- I almost never wear regular clothes at home unless I am planning to go somewhere. As soon as I hit to door, the clothes come off and my pjs come on.

* Thank the blogger who nominated you.
Thanks again to Old Dog New Tits for the nomination, and thanks for reading!

* Add the Versatile Blog Award logo on your blog post.

Hoping everyone is having a great holiday!

Love, Ashley

New Theme & Email Address

Just a quick post. I decided to go with a new theme, just to change things up a bit. The bubble to the right of the post title is the comments sections. So what do you think, or should I go back to my old one?

I also changed my email address. My old one was starting to fill up way too much with spam, so I figured it was time for a new one for a fresh start. You can now contact me at: AshleyBPariseau@gmail.com

Feel free to contact me any time with any question or comment, thanks!

Video Blogging Intro

 

 

I am still getting used to talking to myself in front of the camera and hopefully in future videos I will be more comfortable.

Also I forgot to mention that I will be trying out different ideas as far as video ideas instead of just me blabbering about stuff all the time. Hopefully they won’t be too boring haha.

 

New YouTube Channel

I’ve had my old YouTube account for a few years and never really did much with it. I mainly just had it to view and comment on other videos. I didn’t even upload anything on it until last year.

I never planned on being a “YouTuber” until recently, and I was looking at my old account username, which was MissAshleyXO and I thought, “xo” sounds so 13 year old girl, that has to go. And you can’t just change your username on youtube, you have to make a whole other account. So I figured I would since I didn’t have much content on the other one anyway. I found a way to download videos from youtube on to my computer and then I just reuploaded the videos I wanted to transfer from my old account to my new one.

New channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/LoveAshleyNet

This will be the official channel associated with this blog. I plan to post vlogs (coming soon), personal home videos I take, and maybe some other stuff too. So in other words, if you like this blog then you should like the youtube channel, so feel free to the check the few personal clips I have up now, subscribe, and comment! Please be patient as I am still finding my niche as a new youtuber and figuring out my audience as well.

Also I am looking for cool youtube channels that I can subscribe to so don’t hesitate to post the link to yours, whatever it may be. I will check it out!

Trigger Warnings & Comment Policies

For quite some time now I have been seeing other bloggers using trigger warning and comment policies. First let’s talk about trigger warnings.

Trigger warnings are when the author of the post will warn a reader of potentially offensive content within that post that might trigger an intense emotional response, usually of anger, disgust, or sadness. This is usually done in either the title or the first paragraph of the post, and is usually for the benefit of the reader so they can decide whether or not to proceed reading. Now I have to admit I have always thought of these as somewhat useless to me, because I am not afraid of any potentially offensive content. Even I were, I think curiosity would always get the best of me. I doubt I would say to myself, “Oh there’s a trigger warning, better hit the Back button.” And I have to admit that I am unsure of who would actually do that, but who knows. But my “Sexism: Only Ugly Bitches Complain About It” post the other day seems to have offended quite a lot of people. Some were just disgusted with the message within the motivational poster. Other apparently, “can’t believe I posed it as a serious question.” Now first let me say that I didn’t post that pic as to say I agree with the message it contains. I didn’t mean to purposely offend anyone, and if I did, I apologize. My motive for posting that was that I was just curious as to what different people had to say about the idea. I know other bloggers might not care and they might completely ignore or dismiss anyone who wants to defend the message of the photo, but not I.

Then I got to thinking that maybe I should have put up a trigger warning for that. But if I start doing that, I might have trigger warnings up all over the place, but would it still be necessary? Just something that I started to ponder.

Now on to comment policies. Those are when a blogger will post a set of rules or guidelines for readers who choose to leave comments. If a commenter doesn’t follow the policy, there posts are usually removed and the person who made the comment could face being banned if it is a repeated offense. I have thrown around the idea in my head of making a basic comments policy. Nothing extensive, just something to ensure that no one within my blog community, including myself, feels disrespected in any way by another commenter. I want everyone to be able to have their say but also know that they don’t have to put up with someone else harassing or bullying them, which on a blog that tends to bring up controversial subjects (as I often do) seems to be a potential issue. I think I have put off making a comments policy until I gain more of an audience, but maybe I could use one already. This idea was partially inspired by a conversation and mention of a comments policy that reader Aoirthoir brought up.

So should I use triggers warnings when necessary?
Do you use them as a blogger or reader?
And should I post a comments policy?

Any ideas or thoughts on these two things would be very much appreciated.